Having a baby outside of marriage?

[ll_xx_ll]

Re: Having a baby outside of marriage?

@Southie

^ So what exactly is the punishment for a girl who gets pregnant? Having to go through life being shunned by society? And you are OK with that? A young person makes an error, and we throw the book at her? Where is the compassion, the humanity, the kindness?

A decent person will ensure the shunned girl has a friend. it is convenient and easy to be around folks who are popular. You wnat to make a difference - embrane those who have been shunned, as opposed to taking an active role in shunning that person.

All religions at the core preach tolerance. Those who preach intolerance have perverted religion and hide behind it to mask their intolerance. IIXXII, you are better than this. I am out.

wow did I say I wanted her to be shunned?did I say I was ok with it? if u want my personal view it has always been to be nonjudgmental because anything a person does or doesnt do is between him and god …none of us are in any position to label someone for a mistake they made lest we are free of mistakes ourselves…talk about reading between the lines southie…chill maar… nowhere in my post did i use religion as an excuse…i just said guys dont have a uterus thats why they dont get the short end of the stick like we do …as for what extent a decent person will go to to ensure who has friends and who doesnt…dunno where that came from…but i would like to say u have no idea who i am, how i think, whether or not i am empathetic, or what kind of friends i have …so please dont go judging me on a post that u misunderstood.

all i was saying was why it happens …jesus christ …