Re: Having a baby outside of marriage?
appalled? I am sorry why?
i dont think it is appalling at all and I’ll tell you why … first of all there is the debate on when a life is actually a life… so depending on when ya believe a life is a life you may not technically be “killing” anything… moreover i am someone’s daughter im of the opinion that even today my mother (the person who brought me into this world and raised me) has the right to kill me in front of thousands of people and no one should have the right to punish her for it.
thirdly let me put to u this question what is more morally wrong? is it more morally wrong to have premarital sex and then abort the child once you’re pregnant or is it more morally wrong to have premarital sex bring the child into this world have him suffer at the hands of judgmental people who either label him as “najayaz” and treat him differently or indirectly cause him pain by treating his mother differently and dont even get me started on how this kid will be treated when he will be of marriageable age …all because why? because you were on your high horse about killing a child versus what kind of painful life you will be providing that child if you proceed to bring him into this world.
Sorry but i disagree with you the views of “some of the members of this board” are by no means appalling…they are being realistic considering how our society reacts to certain things
the viewpoint that abortion is being used just to save face disregards the point that the mother very well could be aborting the child because she just does not want to give the child the kind of life he will have if she decides to bring him into this world out of wedlock
first ive heard of this…since when?