This is a very sad post. What if you had to report to your family that you were having a child with down syndrome or some other deformity? A healthy child is all one shoudl hope for its ridiculous that gender is still an issue in ‘passing’ the line, after its become well know that equal amount of genetic material is provided by the mom and the dad. BTW, how many sons did Prophet Mohammad have? By your family’s reason (god forbid) his name would be forgotten. Thinks and be gratefuly for the blessings you have been granted!