Re: Having a 2nd girl
first of all Allhamdollilah uski zaat ka jisne apko yeh khushi di hai, coz there r so many ppl in this world who have health wealth everyhthing except for children, imagaine hw they feel n they would b very grateful if they were to b blessed with a child regardless of it being a son or daughter
explain this to ur parents, its usually the dei women who think like this. Has ur mom ever thought that she is also some1's daughter? if she werent born then how would u b here? Kismat vale hothay hain jinke ghar main Allah ki rehmat athi hai. hamare Nabi Kareem SAW ki b tho betiyan thi, have ur parents forgotten this?show ur happiness n excitement instead of disappointment in front of them, maybe they will then understand. Farmaan aulaad honii chahiye n im sure u would rather have Daughters who will grow up n share ur every happiness n sorrow instead of a boy who frankly doesnt care
sit them down n tell them all this and say that u r very grateful for wat u have n watever Allah SWT does is for the best.
i myself am the eldest of 3 girls n 2 boys, but our father loves us girls more than our bros n spends time with us.
like psquared mentioned the wy she grew up i also shared many interests with my father like cricket was our greatest passion we would both get up at 3am just to watch a match. the list of things u can do is endless. i have a son n another bby on the way n my hubby has always wanted a daughter whereas the first time his mother was constantly taunting me with harsh remarks so one day i just said to her 'i dont have a problem b it girl or boy n neither does ur son, if ur sooooo desperate for me to have a boy then i suggest u go tell ur son coz its his sperm that decide the gender' she darent say anything aftr that n now they all pray that i have a healthy bby
bas dua karo k Allah sehat maand bacha de chahe jo b ho
i pray that Allah SWT blesses u n ur wife with all the happiness in the world.Ameen