Re: Having a 2nd girl
During my second pregnancy, I was the only one who knew I was having a girl. I know my husband wanted a boy so badly (after the first was a girl), but for many reasons I was thrilled I was having a second girl. Just was so concerned she should be born healthy.
When she was born, before I look at her, i looked at hubbys face and yeah he was bit disappointed but then he got over it and loves her to pieces. Now i just cant imagine her a boy...she got this sweet charm and goes around telling us " Be Happy":) Really need to learn a lot from our kids...be happy with what you have I suppose.
This whole carry your name forward thing is so imbedded in our thought process its difficult to overcome even with fairly open minded or modern people.