Re: Having a 2nd girl
Whatever I wanted to say has already been said about ways to approach your parents...there's good advice.
I am one of 2 daughters and NEVER have I felt from parents, family, or community that "it's a shame they don't have a son". I am extremely close with my father and he has always taught and raised my sister and myself to be strong and independent. Grew up playing/watching sports, knowing about cars..... and then all the girly stuff like shopping and dressing up :)
Oh yes, congrats and may Allah bless your family with a healthy baby girl!