I seriously think its a SoFla thing. I'm travelling to other places, and I see Pakistani men on the streets and my mouth hangs open at how clean cut and good looking they are, and by what they're carrying or doing, or saying, or the company they keep, you can tell they have decent jobs and education.
I think you are right- it may be a SoFla thing b/c I don't know many desi families whose kids don't get at least a bachelor's degree, especially the boys. But even though the smart ones go out of state for college, their families are still there aren't they? So you could somehow get introduced to them?
Also, good for you CM that you are so open-minded. Many are not like yourself. I know a guy in his mid-30s who rejects every girl because she is not tall enough, pretty enough, fair enough, etc. forget about looking at divorcees, just like some of the girls you are talking about. He's been looking for a good 5-6 years now. The problem is people think they "deserve" a person with certain objective qualities and do not want to compromise. Sometimes parents also contribute- thinking their child deserves a spouse that meets certain requirements. People just need to get off their high horses.
I know of a couple where the girl was divorced and the guy was never married. The guy was somali or something and the girl was indian, but I think there were a combination of things that made it work out: the guy was v. religious but idealistic, liberal, and open-minded; and his family was outside the country. The girl was also very religious, and really a very respectful, simple and dignified person. both are docs. mA their marriage is really nice. But you could hear people saying "oh he's a doc, he could have married a never-married girl" or "I bet all the somali girls are really disappointed/angry" or "She's really fair, funny she married a black guy"
I heard CM asked you for a date.....did you say yes?
PS: it was in kakaballi's personal attack thread about you but i think the thread got moved before you could see CM's post. I was browsing on mobile that day and couldn't post from my phone.
PCG like hareem, i saw the thread too before the thread mysteriously dissapeared! u should ask one of the mods to fish out his reponse for you. he asked you out, apparently he will be in ny in jan, what do u say can’t believe u missed it and no one told u!!! ok i;m gettng too excited, need a life for myself seriously
Yeah, men do NOT marry divorced women. I don't see that happening at all. I'm sure there are cases out there, but most likely not. And certainly not if she has kids or has older kids.
Puh-lease.
Everyone's looking for a fair young thin hoor pari.
^ exactly... everyone wants a 20-25 hoor pari... fair and tall... PUHLEASE.... u know, us girls, we pass 26-27 and its like "damn! now we're gonna have to look for someone 30+"
i dont think all men are idiots.. i seriously dont... but threads like these just make me cringe... step out into the real world and see what happens.... stop relying on GS Life forum to get ur stats
maàm like someone else here you are generalising as well, i do understand that there are ppl like you have mentioned but paanchon ungliyaan barabar nahi hoteen :k:
I am getting trashed in that thread all day long, and even with mods visiting in it and making comments, and it gets sent off for review when CM finally gets the guts to address me directly??
can’t believe u missed it and no one told u!!! ok i;m gettng too excited, need a life for myself seriously
(don’t kill it for me puleeessseee!)