Have you gone out with non-desi/pakistani guys/girls?

[SolarOceans]

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My husband converted Alhamdulilah. . :)

[gravity_killz]

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^ mashallah !!!

[Aish]

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but yeh i dont have any pakistani or indian friends? well maybe like one indian friend but thats about it.

[danial]

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@mulz

I've gone out with lot of white chicks (like 22 in the past 5 years)- they only good in bed, little less (<5) desis- not so good in bed. The last one I had was a weird mix (father from Holland and mom from Indonesia). I am single now.

get tested, that burning sensation is not cause you have to go peepee.

[Chloe_Sullivan]

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Oh god, I have my eyes on this hot number, half korean and half white. He is the hottest thing ever. Physique of a greek god and he is a martial arts expert, can do backflips in mid air.

I always prefer non-desis over desis.

[mulz]

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@Chloe_Sullivan

Oh god, I have my eyes on this hot number, half korean and half white. He is the hottest thing ever. Physique of a greek god and he is a martial arts expert, can do backflips in mid air.

I always prefer non-desis over desis.

can do backflips in the mid-air? must be half-north korean and half-south korean.. LOL.. Kahaan se aisey heerey ko dhoond ke nikala aapney?

[Chloe_Sullivan]

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say what paindu? Why are you hating on me? Jebus!

[Mahnoor]

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^
I fell for a paki, no regrets…

[Faruk_Khan]

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@Chloe_Sullivan

I always prefer non-desis over desis.

Probably because no Desi would ever give the likes of you the time of day.

[Orpheus]

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Yep, went out with a swede....her name was Mia. * those were the days *

[Ex-Guppan]

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Yep, been there, had 'em all. I think am gonna stick with Paki now, tired of teaching them all, LOL:D

[mulz]

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@Chloe_Sullivan

say what paindu? Why are you hating on me? Jebus!

who is Jebus??

[Ex-Guppan]

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Well, on a serious note: It's fun to be with non-desi guys. They treat you more on equal terms, they don't come with a lot of baggage.

But in the end it boils down to what Sara said, someone who understands and can share your family values!

But the problem with majority of desi guys is that they don't mind going out with non-desi gals but when they see them going out or being friends with non-desi........ they go ....... you know what I mean! I don't understand that hypocrisy and I don't mean all desi guys are hypocrite!

[smilestar]

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a question for all those that have gone out with non-desi..
isn't it hard to do the same type of stuff they do? like i mean most people go clubbin', have a few drinks...things like that. what do you do in a situation like that then, where you're not supposed to be doing those things..
or do you just do it?

[KunWara_Lota]

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@Larki-NY

Yep, been there, had 'em all. I think am gonna stick with Paki now, tired of teaching them all, LOL:D

damn i love you jaan

[parissenoor]

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@smilestar

a question for all those that have gone out with non-desi..
isn’t it hard to do the same type of stuff they do? like i mean most people go clubbin’, have a few drinks…things like that. what do you do in a situation like that then, where you’re not supposed to be doing those things..
or do you just do it?

lol…non desi do not all drink and club…well i don’t :halo:…why don’t you ask us, if it’s not hard to do what you do? ;)…like pardah, very spicy food, eating with hands or wearing shalwar qameez…and standing the very hot weather:D…

[Ex-Guppan]

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@smilestar

a question for all those that have gone out with non-desi.. isn't it hard to do the same type of stuff they do? like i mean most people go clubbin', have a few drinks...things like that. what do you do in a situation like that then, where you're not supposed to be doing those things.. or do you just do it?

Smilestar, first of all if you find it hard to do 'those things' then non-desis are not for u. You shud be where u feel comfortable. However, if you do want to join a non-desi company..... not all drink and go clubbing .... if u do happen to go clubbing (and u can stand the smell of smoking), just be urself, get a juice or something, u don't have to drink an alcohlic drink. You definitely don't have to dress up like 'they' do. In any case, a girl who exposes herself to look attractive, is not a woman enough to me!!!

Dating non-desi is not a big issue. The bigger issue is if you are marrying one, make sure the person knows and practices Islam so that your children may learn the basic values of Islam at home, since our main duty to raise good muslims not leave bunch of ignorant children behind, who won't even send a prayer after you! It is more important if you marrying a non-desi/non-muslim woman, since maan ki goad is the first and most significant learning place for a child.

[Sara516]

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Smilestar, most ppl who c no problem with dating, esp a non-desi are less likely to find anything wrong with drinking and clubbing.. besides, u can always find someone (nondesi) whos not into clubbing or any of that stuff, they’re not all shaitans

[parissenoor]

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@Larki-NY

Smilestar, first of all if you find it hard to do ‘those things’ then non-desis are not for u. You shud be where u feel comfortable. However, if you do want to join a non-desi company… not all drink and go clubbing … if u do happen to go clubbing (and u can stand the smell of smoking), just be urself, get a juice or something, u don’t have to drink an alcohlic drink. You definitely don’t have to dress up like ‘they’ do. In any case, a girl who exposes herself to look attractive, is not a woman enough to me!!!

Dating non-desi is not a big issue. The bigger issue is if you are marrying one, make sure the person knows and practices Islam so that your children may learn the basic values of Islam at home, since our main duty to raise good muslims not leave bunch of ignorant children behind, who won’t even send a prayer after you! It is more important if you marrying a non-desi/non-muslim woman, since maan ki goad is the first and most significant learning place for a child.

:k: very well said:blush:

@Sara516

Smilestar, most ppl who c no problem with dating, esp a non-desi are less likely to find anything wrong with drinking and clubbing.. besides, u can always find someone (nondesi) whos not into clubbing or any of that stuff, they’re not all shaitans

thank you so much sara

[Pinnacle]

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u can always go for a hookah puff with ur non-desi friends :D
no alcohol and quite an interesting experience ;)