Have you experienced broken trust ?

Re: Have you experienced broken trust ?

Wow Eco, U’re still showing signs of the hurt. I guess we trust the same person again and again cuz we will hold on to any little amount of hope we have from that person. I know what u mean, I think I can relate. Sometimes it takes 11X times to leave that person:hypo: Read it somewhere in physcology :slight_smile: (jk about eleven times)

Mirch:hmmm: Again, a very valid thread! We should have a saying for your contribution, “Reply in Mirch’s thread a day, keep ur brain from rust away”

Trust: This is very complicated. As much as I like to apply logic to it i.e.Calculated trust, honestly we can’t predict ppl. Some ppl are just ‘that’ good to sponge up in a way that u feel like nothing else is better than that individual. I used to think that I know who I can trust, now, its been a situation that I’m ready to expect anything from anyone. So then I calculate the ‘extent’ of my ‘possible’ hurt, incase that person might/may ‘backfire’ … and I say to my self before trusting them “what am I going to lose if I do” it just depends on the answer to that analyses. But then there are some individuals that u want to ‘give’ ur trust to, because they’ve been on ur list for a long time… and its just a good time to start ‘short listing’ incase they don’t come through for u. It makes life easier, cuz less ppl u have to worry about keeping close to. Good luck making sense of me blah :blush: