It is life you have to trust people , even if you don’t want to. You trust your family , your friends , your co workers.
Life can be very difficult if you do not learn to trust people. You have to be careful though. You put your blind trust in some people and in other cases you take a calculated risk when you trust someone.
No matter how careful you are your trust gets broken.
Do you trust people ?
Do you have a story to share of your broken trust ?
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lol at the last line.i doubt many people would be comfy sharing the details of that particular story. happens to the best of us, best thing is to learn to forgive yet not forget meaning lower expectations in future.
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^I agree with lowering the expectations part as said above. Ever since I have done that life has become a bit easier.
I guess I have covered that ground by saying sometimes you take calculated risk. Which means you already anticipate that this trust you are placing in this person has some chance of getting broken. Hence it is lowering your expectations at the outset.
Yes one of my friend did that to me.She broke my trust by telling a lie.And later I gotta know that she is a constant liar, although her lies doesn't harm me but still if you are telling something you have to be honest otherwise don't tell. I meet her but I hardly believes what she is saying.
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hmm mirch in case of family a certain trust has to be there. however not every family member is the same. so you might get along with one person yet have that bridge of trusting them completely. probly sounds cold but even in case of family it is better to be smart than naive.
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oh my life is full of such stories 
The thing is you got to learn from ur mistakes, which i never did when I was younger. Now I think I am stronger (yeah right:rolleyes:) and dont trust people that easily (yeah right again). Its just i dont want to trust most of the people in my life now, but at a point again I start trusting them
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ah well, sahi dukhti rug per haath rekha hai.
m not comfortable sharing my stories but a same person has broken my trust literally so many times that i feel like the most *ing dumb, stupid and insase person on the face of the earth.
can u believe the first time he/she broke my trust my whole life changed, i was in shock for atleast a month, but i forgot him/her right away, and then it kept on happening time to time, lies, false promises, and stuff. i *in hate it.
and guess wat, as a result i can not trust anyone now, isnt it *in great????
if anyone makes some promise it feels like he is lieing, if anyone tell me something it feels like lie. it is bull*
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it can happen when you least expect it to and when it happens, you know that it is time for you to leave the other person alone for her or him to grow up on their own.
it can happen when you least expect it to and when it happens, you know that it is time for you to leave the other person alone for her or him to grow up on their own.
Right on the button
so true
but sometimes u r freakin so stupid that even after knowing all the facts u cant leave that person and keep hurting and torturing urself by being with him.
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Broken Trust hurt u alot
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I have SOOOOO many stories on broken trust. I guess Ive learned over the years that people should always be kept at arms length until they prove they are trustworthy.
I work with this guy who is around my dad's age. He is such a nice guy and always tells me Im just like his daughter and wishes she was more like me - Ive no idea why. He and I work in the same department and have similar responsibilities. When I was a newbie with this company he would help me out here and there. But that was also part of his job at the time: mentoring/training me. Training was over 6 months ago for me. Lately, his work has gotten a bit out of control and he fell behind. Our VP had a talk with him and asked him what the problem was. He said it was because he is so busy doing my work and helping me, he cant his done.
Excuse me? When I heard this, I actually had tears in my eyes and had to go to the restroom for a few minutes. It hurt so much to see someone say something so mean out of the blue.
Now, I dont trust him at all. I am nice to him, smile at him, talk to him but there is no trust there.
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ah!! aloot of time....n its so true u cant live widout trusting anyone....N yes i trust ppl to the extent they can b trusted!
N i agree dat one shud lower the expectations!.
Trust can not b based on character...well dis is y most ppl get carried away n ends up putting blind trust on ppl! but trust also comes with character n competency...character includes motives ...intention ...integrity while competency involves skills ..capabilities...a persons track record n all. a person who is sincere...honest but doesnt gives required result...u cannot trust that person fully..N a person who is dishonest but does gives required result...but still u cant trust that person!. but a person who is sincere n also gives required results can b trusted.
Right on the button so true but sometimes u r freakin so stupid that even after knowing all the facts u cant leave that person and keep hurting and torturing urself by being with him.
Who said u to b in a torture cell!!....deres nothing gud in the end !...Kuch logo kee fitrat may hota hei jhoot bolna...n u cant do anything aboout it...except to change urself!....
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*Trust is the pillar to a relationship and it must be built block by block. It has to be earned. Its not given away on a napkin along with your phone number. If you simply handed over your trust, you might as well slap a "I'm stupid" sign on your forehead. But each of us needs to be conned at some point in our life to workout a system of trust. I had the great fortunes of getting conned by my best friends in grade 6. He stole my notebook right before the exam week but I survived and learned that the *only person watching my back is me. We are still great friends but needless to say I never got conned again by a guy but I did started conning other class fellows as a social service. (I saw myself being a teacher for those innocent kids whom I have taken under my wings to show by example the harsh realities of life. I succeeded admirably.)
*Support Circle:
*Despite my teaching abilities, I have had the distinct pleasure of meeting plenty of great people and thats because after I got conned I didn't give up social life. I went back in and started to socialize again and now I have built a circle of people who are genuine. If you get deceived by a person whom you love its impossible to trust again but with time you learn to do it but the road to recovery is slow. At the end of the day you do meet great people and you keep them along your side by caring about them. I know if I get stabbed, the people in my support circle will be the first to rescue me even if they are not on the scene with me. And however sad it might sound, they don't go to university with me or they are not exactly educated either but I can trust them. Time after time they have proven themselves by extending their support in exchange for nothing. And it doesn't ends here, I have an extra key to their houses, I have been with them when they were getting divorced or having a rough time.
How Much Trust?
Despite my belief that I can trust them with life, do I actually trust them enough to take advice for family matters or about relationship from them. No way! You have to compartmentalize everyone. Your family shouldn't tell you what to do with your wife and vice versa. Your friends should't tell you what to do with your family or wife. So keep everyone in their place.
So What Are You Saying?
At the end of the day, I see the world from my own two eyes and I believe in my instincts. That's what we all have forgotten. Very few of us believe in our instincts. And women at all times should believe in their instincts. Women have this amazing ability which tells them that there is something wrong and even what is it that is wrong. Only dilemma is that they get way too caught up with their womanly reasoning and end up confused. I have a close friend who was dating a guy and out of the blue she came to me and said: "I think he is having an affair." and I asked her how she knows and she said it was her instincts that were telling her that he is having an affair. I thought that was crazy. The guys stays right next to her at all times and does what she says, almost like a cute puppy but regardless I started pursuing the matter out of curiosity. Guess what? He wasn't just having an affair. He was engaged to be married to someone in Afghanistan. That blew me away. There was no signs whatsoever that he was two timing her. It was all in her instincts but it still amazes how she knew. And this is just one example. I know a dozen cases where the girls who didn't follow their instincts just ended up with broken promises. So everyone trust your instincts. No matter how rosey a situation might be, exert self-control and take a step back to see what your instincts are telling you.
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So many times… I gave up and have changed myself I don’t trust anyone now, I am leading my life of my own choice now because I am grown up now 
. some people don’t even know what does TRUST mean, yet they talk about TRUST , that sounds funny to me. They claim they trust and they are trusted but they are mostly wrong, they talk about you everywhere and say that you are trustworthy but their own trust is broken. it’s the HEIGHT OF MEANNESS i believe. I don’t trust such people who can’t even take care of your reputation and your relation with them, they just think that they are right and only they have right to raise their voices against you. I don’t know who forces them to stick with one person for the whole life, if they don’t trust you then what’s the point of that so called relationship?
I could’t agree with you more, moving along in a relationship where you don’t trust your partner is an absolute sabotage to oneself. Whats the point of even being in that sort of relationship? Thats a time bomb waiting to explode.
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mainy her dafa Shmapoo compnies per trust ker k un kay shampoo lay laytee hoon
her dafa na sirf main trust toot;ta hay bulkay baal bhi Tootnay lagtay hain*naraz*
ps > koi acha shampoo bata saktay hain (ik dafa or trust ker laytee hoon : P )
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I find it extremely hard to trust people..I usually use my intuition.If my intuition says that person is shady, then I don't trust them.so if i trust someone i know they are worthy of my trust.
"trust is like crystal rich, costly and rare..when broken can be mended but the crack is always there"
Yeah everything is based on trust...and people break it easily without thinking twice how much a person can be affected by their actions!