Wow Eco, U’re still showing signs of the hurt. I guess we trust the same person again and again cuz we will hold on to any little amount of hope we have from that person. I know what u mean, I think I can relate. Sometimes it takes 11X times to leave that person:hypo: Read it somewhere in physcology (jk about eleven times)
Mirch:hmmm: Again, a very valid thread! We should have a saying for your contribution, “Reply in Mirch’s thread a day, keep ur brain from rust away”
Trust: This is very complicated. As much as I like to apply logic to it i.e.Calculated trust, honestly we can’t predict ppl. Some ppl are just ‘that’ good to sponge up in a way that u feel like nothing else is better than that individual. I used to think that I know who I can trust, now, its been a situation that I’m ready to expect anything from anyone. So then I calculate the ‘extent’ of my ‘possible’ hurt, incase that person might/may ‘backfire’ … and I say to my self before trusting them “what am I going to lose if I do” it just depends on the answer to that analyses. But then there are some individuals that u want to ‘give’ ur trust to, because they’ve been on ur list for a long time… and its just a good time to start ‘short listing’ incase they don’t come through for u. It makes life easier, cuz less ppl u have to worry about keeping close to. Good luck making sense of me blah
lol… I think u’re my long lost twin (hopefully the better one, since I’m the evil one )… maybe not, cuz everyone is so different. lets see what else we can relate with
i think trusting again is not necessarily a bad thing. every body makes mistakes, i hope that shouldnt stop us from developing friendships and relations. just dont go head over heels and lay every single skeleton out of the closet. take your time and remember some things are best left alone and unsaid.
Story of my life.
But I forgave, and moved on as a stronger person. On the other hand also made me trust people less easier... I won't believe everything one says to me, unless that person can prove he/she really means it.
It is life you have to trust people , even if you don't want to. You trust your family , your friends , your co workers.
Life can be very difficult if you do not learn to trust people. You have to be careful though. You put your blind trust in some people and in other cases you take a calculated risk when you trust someone.
No matter how careful you are your trust gets broken.
Do you trust people ?
Do you have a story to share of your broken trust ?
Mine is long story I will share it later.
Yes. I DO think it WAS my fault that I trusted someone SO blindly that the person knew all details about my life. The way that person broke my trust on him/her doesn't need to be mentioned here but I have a very, very hard time trusting anyone now.
Folks as you know most of my threads ask a question or ask to share stories. I have decided to declare best post in each of my threads in AV forum. So this is the 2nd of my threads with best post identified.
I am the only judge. I will try my best to keep my biases and prejudices out of my judgment.
(jk about eleven times)
)… maybe not, cuz everyone is so different. 
lets see what else we can relate with
what responses!
