…so badly that all you wanted to do was hear their voice? But in the end you knew you couldn’t talk to them because of several barriers…how do you cope with this problem?
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well it never happened to me! but maybe you can go pray… might make you feel better! … or go watch a movie with friends! 
hope u feel better hunni!
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Thanks! I think praying does help and is probably the best way to go....:)
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i know the feeling…and believe me if it lingers it can lead to depression…or the blues:( where you turn lazy and cant seem to do anything!
Divert your thought processes, keep urself busy,easier said than done i understand but you gotta try love!
rememberance of Allah…saying subhanAllah, Alhamdolillah, Allahuakbar, Lailahaillalah…
“Verily in the rememberance of Allah do hearts find rest” Holy Quran 13:38
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well yea..happened once.
i was trying to call dish network's 1800 number, and i somehow must have mispunched a number or two as I got connected to some phone sex line.
Now the girl on the other side sounded pretty naughty and i really wanted to hear her out, but had several barriers: my uncle was sitting infront of me, had to be someplace in 15 mins and these things are always pretty expensive too. So I just coped by hanging up. To this date I still jumble up the nos for dish network in hope to get the number again but no luck.
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hmmm if its bad enough, nothing really works..i guess i shouldnt be complaining I can talk to him whenever i want
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Act out a conversation with finger puppets.
I can only picture you, the phone, the uncle, watch.Re: Have you ever missed someone....
D2A: Thanks for all the great advice...read namaaz today and feel a little better...but its like where ever I go or whatever I do its like I just think about this person. I just hope inshallah allah will help me forget.
Lussi: Cute story...but when I say miss someone I mean miss someone you are very close to and have feelings for.
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damn that feeling... keeping urself buzy n prayers is the best thing to do, but somehow, u cant semm to keep urself occupied coz ur thoguhts keep geeting fine tuned to the same frequency... this too shall pass, coz time heals all wounds.. sit down, n think all u want, cry all u want, say what ever was left unsaid, pray to god, to gve u the strength to move on repent if u feel like it, n then give urself a closure n move on...
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your welcome…is this person you are talking about your fiance or somebody else who may be taking over your thoughts?
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hmmm..
yah...i have
how did i cope with it? cry myself to sleep or listen to sad songs and let the tears flow till the tear tanky gets empty :D or start surfing GS to take my mind off stuff
but i try not to dwell in my sorrow...i always try to get a grip on myself with a strong and firm hand and not fall into the well of depression...coz that can be dangerous and the more you get into it the worse you feel...so its best to control yourself at the very beginning...tho sometimes it can be difficult but still one must try...
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I know exactly how you feel.
The best way to cope with it is to keep yourself busy then you wont have time to sit around and think about them, otherwise you will go mad.
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My fiance and I don't have any barriers (mashallah) unless we put them up ourselves. I am just talking about my best friend. We used to be so close and now these barriers have taken us apart. :(
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^
Pyaari83… How are you kuriye? 
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Hehehe yea i know that feelin'that you wanna hear that persons voice badley but when i call that person i hang up coz i dont know what to say then :(
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i have been there many times…sometimes you wish you didnt lose that connection you had and wished tha you had made that an effort and stayed in touch..when you speak to someone after such a long time you dont know where to start because sop much has happened and you wish y ou could tell them everything…
i think the best thing for you to do is to make dua for that person piyaari83 and Nilu…make dua that allah grants them peace and happiness and fills their life with barakah and grants them every success in this life and the hereafter and ask allah for the love oo those people who love Allah.
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Well!
when you can't do nothing, you can't do nothing.
I miss one of my friends who died in 98 of lukemia.
Ask me what happens when I want to talk to him now. The feeling!!! but you can't do nothing.
and the examples keep adding and adding and adding and as they say, LIFE.
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oh yes i do miss someone.. its hard.. really hard... i get really upset but kiya karoon.. there are certain majborrian that I have to deal with.. MSN/Yahoo/SMS helps me get through the days :)