Have you ever confronted a bully in real life ?

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And all that hard work paid off. :chai:

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Every one experiences it and so did it :D

But is was like verbal bullying :D

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Ok I lied. Some girls (you know the O my God popular mean girls) didn’t like me in junior high and I didn’t like them. It never really bothered me that much. They said random stuff to me all the time. I acted like I didn’t hear them. That ticked them off more. I couldn’t care less about school yet all the teachers loved me. :smiley: I was a textbook nerd.

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i used to get bullied by this guy i used to walk away or ignore until one day i totally snapped at him, he got embarassed.. (i can be REALLY loud) and that was the end of the bullying chapter.

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I got the truth out of you with just one comment . Now I need to work on making you parho the kalima again. :D

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^Dream on :D

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I was not bullied most likely because of my 'i cant care less' attitude but my son is getting bullied and he is very sensitive too. We are dealing with it.

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How are you dealing with it ? This is the point of this thread to find out how people get bullied and how they deal with it.

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School board here have bullying counselor. We met him and he has given us advise (and material) on how to deal and talk to our kids. One thing he strongly said not to do is asking our kid to 'fight back'. (physically)

This particular kid (who was bulling our son) was actually bullying almost half of the class. We have talked to teachers, principal and they all are trying to deal with it. Kid is sort of problem child creating problems for teachers too. On top of all this, he lives on our street to there is no way we can ask our kid to 'avoid him'. Anyways, with this new semester, he is in different class so we dont have to worry much about him.

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I havent been bullied in a long time... I wonder why? :D

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:smiley: you reminded of a girl in our school.
She was 3 years older and was pretty heavy, and was a child terrorist, back then we were kids so she was just a terrorist.

Now her younger brother was the same trouble make in a grade lower then mine, in my little brother’s class. One day he messed with my little brother. I waited after school.

I saw him going out of class room area towards pick up area, I went to him, slapped him :omg:
Poor boy got his feet off the ground and fell in the little bush like 2 feet away.

Now my revenge was over. Then fear of her terrorist sister came over.
She was looking for me all over the class-room area with that thick-yellow ruler with metal blade on it.
I dodged her till they both got picked up by the family.
Her bother never messed with any one after that. :snooty:

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I am still traumatized by bullying. There were some really mean girls in my class when I was in class six. We were in the same section until class 8 and it was pure hell.:( I guess I'm very sensitive and that's why they enjoyed bullying me so much. No I never stood up to them. Nor did I tell my parents about it.

It was good in a way...because I try to be very careful to not deliberately hurt others by my words. Because I know how hurtful it is from my personal experience.

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:hoonh: I WAS NOT and I never attacked anyone younger than me.

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I was bullied too when I had super low self esteem but then I kinda grew out of that and I started bullying people. Ok not really but I started fighting back. There were these two really mean kids in my school bus that just laughed and laughed at me for no reason :teary1:. One of them is actor Humayun Saeed’s wife’s daughter from her previous marriage. If I find her now, I am going to slap her so hard… moti bhens.

I got bullied by this batamiz gori in HS all the time. I used to hate her but could never say anything to her. She got into a fight with a teacher who apparently ran to hit her. The teacher (who was my fav .. of course :halo:) got suspended for 2 days and she just left school after that incident. Shukar.

I got into a fight with my bff in HS and it was so ugly. She left school after that. And one time I confronted a mean manager at work. She sat in her office and cried all day. We were kinda okayish after that though but she ended up quitting after few weeks.

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You nick should be bad news ( bad news for bullies that is) :smiley: because they were all dropping like flies after bullying you. :slight_smile:

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nahh. for some reason i got a reputation as a hard man all through out high school. I have no idea why :/

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yes so many times :teary1:

each time i tried givin out my number the girl hurled her shoe at me.

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That is not called bullying my man , it is called shoeing a creep.

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in real life i run from bullies, but online, i beat them up by the dozen.

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I was bullied when I was in grade 7 b/c i had no friends. I didn't tell anyone until the girl told me she will murder me. Then I told my teacher and she was suspended and she didnt get to go to Ontario place. I was VERY happy..LOL..then after a few yrs, all the girls who were her friends became my friends and she had no friends. What goes around, comes around.