Most of the family rishtas I rejected were my mother's cousins.
Could you please help me understand that clearly. Were those rishtas for you mother's cousins or your mother's cousins' sons (your second cousins)???
I have seen one rishta in my family where the guy was girl's mother's first cousin. It is understandable because of huge age differences of cousins that cousins' children could be of your age or even older. I thought that kind of rishta was wierd ........... but am wondering is that normal ?????