Re: Have u called a roh?
Itsme: Holly molly, poor soul eeks somehow when I was not a mother, the concept of death didn’t really bother as much as it does since I’ve had a daughter. I never feared anything, even the thought of the unseen entities (well its hard to get the mind rid of all fears now ahem! we’re such hypocrites i tell ya) makes feel such a chicken 
Lajo bhai. Yeah I guess I agree. The thought of qabr used to be such a turning point for me in various stages of life. Then one day I had a dream. I saw myself dying, and ppl doing janaza. I saw my body being lowered in the grave. Since in reality I can be a major clausterphobic freak, I’ve always detested the thought of being trapped in the grave. Anywho. In the dream, I totally felt like this is happening for real, and this is exactly how its going to be. I was feeling utter peace and calm. I saw two angels on my sides, right and left. One of them having a hand on my shoulder, while the other standing near with a book in his hand, writing the details of God knows what. But I was not sad, and had a peaceful peaceful look on my face. Was in complete harmony with the entire situation (which is so not me in reality). I remember exclaiming, Ah this isn’t half as bad as I’ve always anticipated all my life. While the body was lowered in the grave and left there, I also did dua and left with the angels and after all the ppl left.
When I woke up. I was amazed. And I’ve always wondered, is that how its actually going to be, or was that only just my subscious triggering the phenomena as I’ve always desired for secretly? 
I don’t really know the answer, WalaO Alam!