‘What ever happened to good old fashioned MANNERS’ thread got me thinking if guys have been rejected and turned down.
Are there any true stories and how does it feel? Do they have to go through any sort of parade? Have there been instances where the girl’s family checked them out and walked away without ever contacting or left them hanging?
Does it hurt them the way it often hurts women?
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I am sure maddy has a story or two 
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ouch! Next question please..
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Awww Maddyyy 
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guys leave maddy alone, that was rude,
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alhumdullilah no
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although i was kinda afraid when i asked my fiance well i never really asked him, i told him and i expected him to like me, i just didnt know if he liked me the way i like him..
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gosh yar tum ne to becharey ki izaat ka satyanas kar dala - wese i wont be surprise if you are right
maddy bhai tell tell-
i t hink guys get over quickly- but i have heard they share part of their heart to that special person if that person leaves they will never open up again…
sadiyah - i use to think they had no heart but after seeing few friends of mine- Ouch- they don’t cry but their heart - toba.. they are alot emotional than us. But you really gotta get to know the core of that person.
we cry, want chocolate, write cards, emails, letters etc. But they can only cry in front of that one speical person
am i right guys?
gosh i think i am paying too much attention on these men 
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You are sooooo right! I have seen guys like that and It takes lot to hold things inside them and cry only infront of special person or alone. I feel bad for them 
Guy’s tears are my weakness 
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i think we all have a few stories like that. both guys and girls get rejected..
stop pickin’ on poor maddy 
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I know of someone that got rejected because the girl's side didn't think that his side was giving enough jewelry and clothes to the bride for the wedding.
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I’m a legend in this thread 
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^ haylo everyones waiting for stories, or i guess they can read your journal
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Not all my stories make it into my journal :p
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^ true maddy 
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hm rejection itself is very hard a word,and yes guys do get rejected too,and it would hurt too,but its just k guys show their feeling to very few a ppl ,uger hum gender discrimintaion na he kerein to behter hey rejection to girl ki ho ya guy ki its equally a big set back fot the effectee
and worst part is k how to say that its all gonna be ok:bummer:
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rejection as in rishta?...I sent my rishta to someone only once and was'nt rejected ...my circumstances changed in life and I chose not to get married...so I am not sure how it feels to get rejected in rishta.Well in Pakistan as a guy you will be more rejected when you ask a girl out on a date rather than if you send a rishta because they all love 'Shadi' here and hate dating...its the other way around in the west.
Guys do get hurt when rejected in rishta or otherwisie...don't think that just because they are high on testosterone,they don't care...especially if they have a crush on someone or have feelings for them.I think this notion of women being more sensitive than guys is bit of a myth.I have seen very evil women in my life.
I know an Indian friend of mine got hurt badly...he was madly in love with a girl in dubai..used to send her flowers and gifts and thought that she was gonna mary him...but on came the recession in America and he lost his job.. so his girl ditched him and married a rich guy.It devastated him emotionally, eventhough he lives in America he does'nt want to go out with anyone anymore.
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many times. but then i get up the other day, all charged up to bother the same girl God help those who help themselves. :k:
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