What do you do when you get hate?
is it obvious that you too hate in return on getting hate?
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nafrat ko pyaar se badaliye, so jeevan sukhi hoye! :)
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May be one should think why he/she was heated.
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nafrat ko pyaar se badaliye, so jeevan sukhi hoye! :)
kitabi batain hain. Practically its not that simple. Do you think that its easy to return love on hate?
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May be one should think why he/she was heated.
yeah, that could help us understand the reason of others opinion about us. But we usually neither think nor evaluate our own deeds and follow tit for tat psychology. isnt it?
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there are people who are overly generous...the ones who aren't should strive to become one.
practically to yeh hai k jo aapke saath buraa kare uske saath dugnaa buraa kiyaa jaaye...yeh Haiwaani radd e 'amal hai...:)
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May be one should think why he/she was heated.
some hate due to perception and not reality.
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yeah, that could help us understand the reason of others opinion about us. But we usually neither think nor evaluate our own deeds and follow tit for tat psychology. isnt it?
tit for tat is immediate response, but at some point of time people do realize their mistakes and therefore the feelings like regret / guilt exist.
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tit for tat is immediate response, but at some point of time people do realize their mistakes and therefore the feelings like regret / guilt exist.
yeah, but there are very few who evaluate their reactions and try to correct themselves accordingly.
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yeah, but there are very few who evaluate their reactions and try to correct accordingly.
The remaining category is dheet and deserve hate
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Question arises, can we nurture this trait of evaluating our actions honestly and correcting ourselves?
if yes then how?
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by valuing the relationships. In a society, where family is going to be treated a burden, such traits are difficult to nurture.
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by valuing the relationships. In a society, where family is going to be treated a burden, such traits are difficult to nurture.
you mean where each family member have to do his/her own housekeeping part, etc?
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The remaining category is dheet and deserve hate
dont you think that judgemental criticism is good enough in attempt to make them realize. Not that we must return a love.
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you mean where each family member have to do his/her own housekeeping part, etc?
yes in a society where no one wants to share responsibility, valuing family and relationship is a tough task. In such societies relationships are always at stake as no one is ready to compromise.
dont you think that judgemental criticism is good enough in attempt to make them realize. Not that we must return a love.
what do you mean by judgmental criticism?
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What do you do when you get hate? is it obvious that you too hate in return on getting hate?
Who/what introduced 'hate' to humans ? A kid isn't born with hate is he ?
As to ans your question, no we don't return in hate. We can either choose to ignore and be neutral to the situation/person or we can return in love. The former is comparatively easier.
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yes in a society where no one wants to share responsibility, valuing family and relationship is a tough task. In such societies relationships are always at stake as no one is ready to compromise.
what do you mean by judgmental criticism?
that is how we (should) reply to NFP's propaganda :D
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Who/what introduced 'hate' to humans ? A kid isn't born with hate is he ?
Its is within us i guess, just like love. It can reveal on conflict of interest, likes, and dislikes.
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As to ans your question, no we don't return in hate. We can either choose to ignore and be neutral to the situation/person or we can return in love. The former is comparatively easier.
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Then you never get hated by anyone, i guess :D
just kidding :)
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a Confucius quote is somewhat related to the topic.
It is easy to hate and it is difficult to love. This is how the whole scheme of things works. All good things are difficult to achieve; and bad things are very easy to get.
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You mean, nafrat fitri hai ?
Its is within us i guess, just like love. It can reveal on conflict of interest, likes, and dislikes.
Then you never get hated by anyone, i guess :D just kidding :)
How to deal with the hate they recieve depends on an individual. Some respond with hate, some ignore and move on, some respond with love.