Re: has my “rukhsati” been done
I’m not suggesting that either way is right or wrong…that’s not my business…but I do believe that the pressure society puts on the couple (particularly the girl) on this matter (i.e. virginity) is outrageous.
And it is this pressure that forces the society-fearing folks to take these “technical” approaches.
The feel that they are protecting themselves from Allah and the general public where, according to my own views, they should just focus on Allah alone.