has my "rukhsati" been done

[Jolie]

Re: has my “rukhsati” been done

@Muzna

oh I completely agree…it is totally their business.

my post was in reference to the suggestion of some folks that the nikah offers an opportunity to get to know the person before consummating the marriage…in a way an opportunity to walk away if things just don’t feel right.

again…I am the last person to advocate the right of society to interfere…trust me on that.

I agree. I actually know a family who treat a simple nikkah done in a sitting room filled with just 10/12 as a glorified engagement and thats wrong.