Re: Mehr. Serious question.
^ Thanks for that TLK. I thought you choose which one you want...the one that is given upfront or the divorce one. My fiance and I agreed to do the one that is given upfront but now I have to ask for the one that is given on divorce as well. I'm assuming the one that is given on divorce should be higher (Mowajjal) if it means she should be able to maintain the same lifestyle for 9 months to a year.
What complicates things though, is the lifestyle I enjoy, would be a result of my earnings and his earnings combined. Does that mean what he gives me should be his 9 months salary + my 9 months salary or ONLY his 9 months salary?