this is the first time i have heard of this cocept.
this is making me feel as if parents sell their daughters ??? compensation to educate her etc etc …how pathetic. how can any parent ask for money to compensate the expenses they incurred on their daugther. Just how pathetic …ewwww I am feeling soo disgusted after reading this , you are talking as if a girl is a commodity and the seller is charging whatever expense he has incurred on the girl.
it’s marraige we are talking abt not a business deal …lets say I spend Rs 1 million over the years on my daughter’s education she is dr now . now that you are getting married to a Dr you shd compensate the 1million Rs. What about the compensation of money spend on a son for his education ??? who will pay for that ??? i think u’ll say it’s going to be in the form of dowry.
parents have got nothing to with haq mehar it’s simply for the girl. if parents speak abt it they act as a spokesperson / agent / vakil of girl it’s still girl’s right we are talking abt and the money belongs to the girl and not to the parents.