Re: Haq Mehar
wondering how everyone praising haq maher should be sky high!
I think no figure would save the marriage if it has to come to a sad end.
Me and my family didnt demand or received any dowry etc from my wife or her parents. we had very nominal amount when my sister got married.
yet we got received call a night before for demand of maher of 500K, i wouldnt mind this if it was discussed and agreed well before. for me it was more like a black mail when cards and invitations were out. and for me it was anti trust move from the start. these realtionships are based on trust and love not rely on financial pressure of any kind.
still i am not able to pay to my wife this amount and feel burden on my head.