Haq Mahar

[codeman]

Re: Haq Mahar

@Shak killS

I think its right of woman, at the same time they shouldnt ask too much as condition for marriage.

in my view a huge haq maher doesnt deter anyone not going for divorce. a relationship cant be stable on basis of Haq Mehar.

I got married recently and been through this un pleasent scene, just before one day of wedding, my wife’s mom called my father " itna haq mehar hoga- if you want this marriage to go ahead otherwise its not!!!" mind everything was sorted, invitations gone out.
it wasnt the case that I cant afford that huge sum. but for start of wedding life with this kind of thing was really upsetting for me, i said ok I m calling it off, though I like my wife. but my parents said its too late now. so gone ahead with it, but it did make initial perception of other family bit upsetting. mostly in our family we opt for minimum islamic mehar paid at nikkah.

there is another thing, i didnt ask or accepted a single penny Jahez from them, allhamdo lillah. and that was surprising when we didnt ask or demanded anything.

personaly i beleive marriage is a emotional relationship, it cant be based on monetry things. haq mehar or jehaz.

Totally agree…an extremly sad way to start of a life together..sorry brother…but inshaAllah hope and wish the best for u and ur wife..