They dont talk to each other anymore. As per my wife. I feel like i am being dragged into women politics.
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do you really want to change things when you are doing nothing wrong, just because your wife is a big baby? what sort of trend will you be setting here for the future?
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Really appreciate your post but you are making me sound bad. My intention was never to hurt my wife and do anything behind her back. I did say i will never go with A for coffee.
:) That is not the intention and, indeed, should not be taken as the outcome of my post. At times, we need to justify the behaviour of our partners and a deeper understanding can help us come to term with sometimes seemingly odd behaviour.
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Yes A did. Often complementing on clothing and eye color. I have bluesh green eyes. Lol. I think which ticked my wife off. Which is understandable.
Am i the only one who thinks someone else appreciating my husband is a good thing? I give complements to my guy friends at times, but i have no designs on them. if someone looks good, or is dressed well, i'll say that. who doesn't like complements.
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do you really want to change things when you are doing nothing wrong, just because your wife is a big baby? what sort of trend will you be setting here for the future?
many men would have been divorced, if they didn't.
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Hi Hassan,
You need to think about what you value more, this friendship with 'A' or maintaining your marriage with the woman who you committed your life too.
You wife is somebody who you promised to share your ENTIRE life with, raise a family with and spend the rest of your days and nights with, and if you were smart, you would think about the future and realise that you don't want to ruin anything with her.
If you are not a suspicious person, then well done, that's a good thing. But you can't blame your wife if she is suspicious about 'A'. People are different and nobody's perfect.
Please please please, for the sake of your wife's happiness and the health of your marriage, STOP meeting this girl for coffee, find some other boys to be friends with, and do not associate or communicate with 'A' anymore. Like somebody else already said earlier, she missed her chance so why is she hanging around you if she knows you're married, AND why are you letting her ???
You're married now. Please start acting like it.
I can't tell you how hurt and betrayed I would feel if I found out my hubby was regularly spending time alone with another girl, never mind if it was a girl he had a history with and had marriage talks with !!! It would be soooo hurtful. Just devastating.
Just stop Hassan. Stop
Save all that attention and time alone for your precious wife, not a random female work friend.
Wow, talk about overdramatic and emotional
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many men would have been divorced, if they didn't.
many of these divorced men probably extended their natural lifespan by a decade or more though..
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Am i the only one who thinks someone else appreciating my husband is a good thing? I give complements to my guy friends at times, but i have no designs on them. if someone looks good, or is dressed well, i'll say that. who doesn't like complements.
My wife enjoys it too but I found out A said something inappropriate which I wouldn't want to mention. Which annoyed her and taking her annoyance on me. Talk about women. Everything is good now I think. She is it possessive but she said, she is working on it.