Happily married but....

Sara516 · January 17, 2014, 1:04am

Re: Happily married but…

Hi Hassan,

You need to think about what you value more, this friendship with ‘A’ or maintaining your marriage with the woman who you committed your life too.

You wife is somebody who you promised to share your ENTIRE life with, raise a family with and spend the rest of your days and nights with, and if you were smart, you would think about the future and realise that you don’t want to ruin anything with her.

If you are not a suspicious person, then well done, that’s a good thing. But you can’t blame your wife if she is suspicious about ‘A’. People are different and nobody’s perfect.

Please please please, for the sake of your wife’s happiness and the health of your marriage, STOP meeting this girl for coffee, find some other boys to be friends with, and do not associate or communicate with ‘A’ anymore. Like somebody else already said earlier, she missed her chance so why is she hanging around you if she knows you’re married, AND why are you letting her ???

You’re married now. Please start acting like it.

I can’t tell you how hurt and betrayed I would feel if I found out my hubby was regularly spending time alone with another girl, never mind if it was a girl he had a history with and had marriage talks with !!! It would be soooo hurtful. Just devastating.

Just stop Hassan. Stop

Save all that attention and time alone for your precious wife, not a random female work friend.

Wow, talk about overdramatic and emotional