Hajabi girls going half-naked in ONLY LADIES PARTY...

[Sara516]

Re: Hajabi girls going half-naked in ONLY LADIES PARTY…

^ TLK I actually know someone like that (kind of), she curses, smokes pot, dresses provocatively and slept around…but when it came to azaan, she was very strict about having her head covered…I know someone else who does the same, but without fail she prays 5x a day…in the latter one I do feel bad about judging that aspect because I know myself and many others..who don’t pray 5x a day…so whose to say whose better or worse?

@princessjojo

what’s so horrible about a hijabi girl smoking? drinking, sure..but smoking? is smoking considered immoral now?

with attitudes as judgmental as these, do we also expect good hijabi women to be dormant in their intimate lives (with their husbands, for clarification) ? it wouldn’t suit them/their image after all to be playful and naughty, even if it is within limits of what is Islamically allowed, would it.

Exactly.

i mean, why judge if its something done in private and isn’t hurting anyone?

I admit up until a few years ago I judged hijabis as well, because I wans’t one and I was sick of hte “if you wear a hijab you’re a good girl and if you don’t you’re a slut” argument I always got… but after meeting many hijabis and knowing them…its just a piece of cloth on the head. So yes, I know hijabis who are “good” and who are “bad” and non-hijabis who are “good” and “bad”..