hairdressers, masseuers, doctors.. etc

Lifestyle Relationships
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how many of u women out there have issues with their men getting haircuts, massages from females?

To be honest, ive never had an issue.. but over the weekend i was made aware by someone close to me how she finds it no less than heartwrenching for her husband to go through something like this…

I never thought it was a big deal…

Is it for you?

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What if her husband had to be checked by a female nurse/doctor? Meeting with a female teacher? Even then? Sometimes you might not even have a choice.

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its a very big issue. that girl should always go with her husband. lol

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haircuts are ok !

but would a husband allow his wife to get massage from a man if yes then he should also be allowed to get a massage from a woman :rolleyes:

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Or she can just cut her hair for him...and give him a massage.

And how does she know that the hairdresser or masseur is a female? Did she go with him? Did he tell her about it? Would he even tell her about them....if he were interested in them?

If she is this freaked out about the issue....then perhaps she needs to talk to her husband about it. I wonder if he know about her fears. Maybe talking to him will provide some reassurance.

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Women really need to stop being so insecure. Its one of the first foundations leading to an unhappy marriage.

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they have discussed issues and csu he loves her very much, has stopped going to female hairdressers :)

Im actually not so worried about things as such... but it didnt spark an interesting conversation

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While that was a loving gesture on his part, I would consider it over interference in a simple matter. A woman doing a full body massage is one thing. But a nurse, or a doctor is a very different concept. Hell so is a damn hairdresser.

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desi banday massage kervatay hain kia? i didn’t know abt it. spa visits r quite expensive.

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Haircut is ok...no problem...but massage.....no way....i can do it for him instead ;)

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yup ! yahan karachi main yeh trend kafi ho gaya hai , I know in few beauty salons for women where men also come for massage ....how do I know ? bcuz one I went to a salon there the receptionist was saying on phone to someone that "yes massage service is available for men too !"

also , these days it's becoming a trend for grooms to get facial and all done for the wedding day and many big salons are providing professional services to grooms these days.

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i was talking body massage. yehan tu luxury hai ya phir for medical reasons.

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^ jee Mabrook ji I also spoke about body massage in my 1st paragraph :D

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i give a damn…

once my hubby said, im going for massage wahan sexy russians haen

n i was like, so? wats the big deal… ye sirf ap mujhay abhi bata rahay ho pata nahi pehlay kitni baar ja chukay ho… then the guy realizes, it was a big senti insult and moves on

:chai:

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so its safe not to tell?

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i actually have no issue with it... maybe im wierd

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butao gay to larai hogi AGAR lerki nahi chahti to.... agar meray jaisi hui to bata bhi do to koi ferak nahi perhta!!!!!

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okay.

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Insecurities especially hair dresser se kaya faraq parta hai :smack:

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no biggies wid hair dresser or doctors :cb: or masseurs :chai: