Re: Guys…
Theorist:
You know what they say “practice what you preach.” If I actually acted upon my need for balancing stuff out, my marriage will end tomorrow. I can preach all I want about the need for balance and equality in marriages, the truth is things are hardly ever completely balanced in any relationship. Sometimes you give more, sometimes you take more.
true that. its give and take…always.
Re: Guys…
You are too wise for us, sweefs. Add some controversial sentences to your posts so people are like “I want to like her post but I must reply to that one sentence I don’t agree with.” Political correctness gets more likes, controversial posts get more replies. That’s how we roll…
sweefs
May 26, 2015, 7:30pm
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Re: Guys…
no it’s just god forbid a single person spread her seeds of wisdom and all-knowing awesomeness in a thread for grown’d up and married peoples.
such discrimination. mai cookies aur doodhoo khaanay jaa rahi hoon
Re: Guys…
redvelvet:
I read that bit and thought… I think that even in western culture, the guy who lives with his wife’s parents will be considered whipped. Actually western culture may be more unforgiving…because it’s considered a shame for anyone who is over 18 to be even living with their own parents lol. But let’s put that aside. When we try to make things 100% equal in a relationship it just won’t move forward. If a guy is willing to take his wife’s parents in and take care of their needs out of his own pocket, then foolish is the woman who instead of appreciating that begrudges him for not living in her parents’ home. Foolish because she chooses to zero-in on that one thing as opposed to looking at the bigger picture and it has naught to do with possessing a wonderful brain and much to do with the struggle to keep the marriage scoreboard even.
Just tell me you agree with .e and your post will get a like.
I think I get ur point. No compulsory for guy to move in. But same token ok if gguy moves in also I think.
By the way what’s up with brocolli in sambaar, I say!
Re: Guys…
True that. Some give. Others take.
chai?