Re: Guys…why wouldn’t you live with you in-laws?
I think our people are programmed to think Bahu = Bad
I have never once stated that a man is not responsible for his mother and father. Not once so please stop putting words where they don’t belong.
If he didn’t care for his parents, I don’t want him.
However, a woman was also born of a pair of parents. It was no less labor in the ER when she was born or less expensive to raise her.
A woman does not have to live with her in-laws. She is to respect them, care for them and be there for them. But by no means is she obligated to sacrifice her own marriage to satisfy her MIL. If she gives up her privacy to live with his parents…its commendable.