Guys who just wanna talk

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Re: Guys who just wanna talk

@PeshawarKameez

Hmm how do I break this to you… this is just my 2 cents but its what I found:

If his pattern consists of 3-4 texts, silence, then 4 days later another few texts… it more than likely means he is texting other women too.

sorry but if there is anything i have learned from living in the western world my whole life and having the misfortune of talking to several men in my more shameful days, its that when a guy is interested he is interested. he doesn’t hold back. he doesn’t care if he is rushing. if he likes you, if he wants you then trust me he won’t leave you alone. he’ll want to hear from you everyday, he’ll want to call you and text you and push you to meet him. they don’t hang about.

but if hes going slow, like as slow as a snail, then it means hes holding onto you as a backup but you are currently his number 6 or 7. hes spending more of his minutes badgering number 1 and 2. but she is probably treating them the way he is treating you. your classic love triangle, you want him, he wants someone else but she doesn’t really want him but she is keeping him on his toes just in case she can’t find anyone else and needs a back up plan and he is doing the same thing to you. sorry but thats how todays society is. players, people with a huge sense of entitlement, no one who knows what they really want. exhausting stuff and this is why there are soooo many single people out there

turn the conversation into sex (not telling you to do this, i’m just being hypothetical) and watch how quickly they perk up. now he suddenly wants to text you every single day… yeeeah men are that simple

This is sadly very true for the most part

Before it was just a guy thing but more and more pakistani women are doing same thing now..it’s a mess..facebook, whatsapp, gupshup, texting, skype, viber, chatting, cell phones, ipads, etc etc have just made it soo easy to interact and find new people that people are always looking to do better and have a grass is greener mentality..that’s why people these days are just fooling around as time pass and entertainment while waiting for the “best option” because it’s so easy to interact these days (can easily hide from parents now also these days using cell phone so the barriers for meaningless interaction are essentially nonexistent these days as compared to late 90s/early 2000s) but in process people are hurting themselves and others

OP don’t waste your time with those guys who are just looking to use you as time pass when they’re bored or as a self esteem booster when they know you’re really into them but they’re not..when a guy is interested and serious about you, it will be very obvious to you