Fair enough you had a bad experience and yes that does sound hypocritical but really there are a lot of hypocritical people in this world. Anyways, at the end of the day if a guy doesn’t want to marry a hijabi girl thats that regardless of what the girl is like. No point of saying “well maybe you should get to know her” if the guy doesn’t dig her outlook.
Personally, I don’t care if he has a beard or not.