Guys when you marry..

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Would your decision be influenced,

if she wore a hijab…

if she wore a burka/ abaya…

if she wore niqab…

That is any of these, as part of her daily life, not necessarily when you meet her for the first time.

And for the ladies - if he keeps a beard

Why or why not will it be of influence?

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Well PW I am not exactly religious fella. So if she wore hijab it's good thing but i am not looking for hijabi girl to be honest with you. But if she later on insisted on wearing it..then i won't stop her. But big no to abaya and niqaab. That is just my preference.

@PW. What about you?? would prefer a fella with beard???? I am talking about full beard.

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Any hijabis or niqaabis here, at which point would u personally choose to show him your hair or face.. if at all?

I have heard girls saying u shouldn't need to show hair as it doesn't make much difference but I think u can literally look like a different person with a change in hair colour and obviously more or less attractive.. (I've sometimes not even recognised friends when they've gone drastically different eg blonde to black)

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If my other half wanted to keep a beard I wouldn't kick up a fuss or discourage him but my personal preference would be clean-shaven..

Just prefer the look of it and not keen on feeling the bristles or getting a rash from kissing him..

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I probably wouldn't mind hijab, but niqaab is something that bothers me. I mean it is definitely a woman's choice to wear it, I just don't see the point when it is not even required in Islam. And obviously I wouldn't be marrying someone whose face I've never seen.

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Depends on the Niyyat, if she takes Hijab and/ OR Burqa on purely Islamic basis then she will earn not only love but respect too!

( she already does :blush: )

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Hijaab? what is she in the 12th century?

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Yep, much like the gorgeous finger-crossing babe in your avatar. Seems like she was born in the 12th century as well. :p

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^Reminds of the story rizla. I was one of my patient at ER couple of weeks ago so a niqabi came for the treatment for one her broken leg. They requested for female ortho-physician which obviously there weren't any because it was 1:30 AM in the morning. Anyhow her leg injury was very severe. She wouldn't even let me treat her! let alone taking a look at the injury on her legs. So female nurses were helping me..it was very inconvenient.

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That's just crazy, some people forget its not just about the 'rules' but rather the spirit of the rules.

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My mum knows someone who had breast cancer and refused radiotherapy as she didn’t want to show her body (I guess she wouldn’t even show a female doc).. She later died and a few ppl actually said ‘mashAllah, she was so religious’ :smack:

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Wow deeba..this is just pushing in my opinion. This is not martydom. I strongly disagree with these kind of ethics. Anyway may Allah forgive her sins and enter into paradise.

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ap logon nay jiss say aur jaisay shadi karna hay karo, lekin kindly Islam ka mazaq na banao and please dont make fun of Niqaab and Niqab-i
dont judge peoples faith with your limited knowledge, let it be decided by Allah

Thanks :rolleyes:

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burkha = big no

hijab = some how acceptable

:chai:

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hijab would be preferred......ninja niqab...hmm......if she's good otherwise...i can work with that too

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i dont care if he has bush beard ..

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so wearing mini skirt is a 21st century thing, right ?

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I am married Allah ka shukkar hain.

To be honest yes it did make a very profound influence on my decision. I was very selective and had some basic demands/criteria. I was definately not looking for a liberall no matter how hot she was.

In the end I found someone who was a mirror to my own personality. I wanted nothing more and nothing less... we share the same ambitions and goals and our intention is to see to it that we both succeed in our mutual dreams.

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I would prefer a clean shaved guy, its just a matter of preference!

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Beard or no beard…it’s his choice. I don’t mind either. But i do like a little facial hair :blush: