Guys when you marry..

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His choice entirely, doesn’t make any difference to me. A little stubble is perrrrrfect! :blush:

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DITTO PENDOO ! ..

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I may be wrong, but I think the rationale for burkas/niqab/hjiab is to ward off mens gaze and interest. It's pretty effective that way; since I've never felt the slightest attraction towards someone wearing any of those.

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ugh

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The force approves.

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:hmmm: so the majority is okay with hijab… not a preference but no problems either…
and there is a preference for clean-shaven guys but generally no prob with a bearded man either.

But here I’d like to point to something… hijab or the covering of the hair in front of non-mehrams is an obligation, keeping a beard on the other hand is sunnah thus not mandatory.

Actually i hate to admit this, but I don’t go for men with a beard because immidiately I feel he’d be too rigid… even in his daily life. If he’s already following more than what is required than I am way behind him at least at the present. It would be just hard to match up to that for me. But that does not mean I want someone who is toooo liberal - that is he has no clue about religion. At the least religion should be a part of his daily life.

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this.

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I'm fine with anything that doesn't cover the face.

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I could get along with hijab as it makes little difference and it is easier to stop her from wearing it, but i won't ever go near a niqab/burqa girl.

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One of the reasons why I wouldn’t go for a niqabi burka girl, and I think I speak for all the guys here, is that she probably wouldn’t be as ‘liberal’ in bed :whistling:

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I have seen Hijabis snogging on bus stops. One was in my mates club. lol.
I had the bouncer throw her out. :slight_smile:

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^haha, I know all about hijabis like those, there were many in my uni, I'm talking about the actual mullani types.

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okay lets put the question this way since most men wouldn’t go for a abaya burqa and certainly not for a niqabi…

What are the things or apprehensions of men when considering such women, one was stated by rizla which I think doesn’t apply to everyone since most desi men do go for the very innocent and inexperienced types :rolleyes:

What other things do you associate…

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Tell me about it. Discusting really. Atleast respect the hijab otherwise it undermines decent girls who wear it.

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Do you wear the Hijab?

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and why is knowing that important…? :vivo:

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Inexperience is not a problem, innocent ‘sex is for making babies’ type is :rotato:

Other things, hmm, probably that with a niqabi woman, you are expected to take her religiousness as the sole criterion and you wouldn’t be able to have a very open conversation which would help you decide if she’s a good match.

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PakWoman, are u a hijabi yourself?

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Since, I am going to answer some questions I would like to know. I don’t understand what the relevance is? :stuck_out_tongue: