I agree with this. I think, as girls, we tend to overthink everythign in the beginning. With guys , from my experience, they go into it without putting as much thought into it UNTIL they meet the person. So maybe he’s really trying to figure out how he feels…I know it might hurt a little, but look on the bright side–it’s better/mature of him to do this NOW then go into it w/o thinking and suddenly decide that its not the right decision when you guys are actually engaged/married.