Re: Guys - my engagement is off ( i think )
are you calling he OP a fat lady or the guy a fat lady? or is it the future MIL? im so confused
inspiron guys are like buses… ek jaata hai dusra aa jaata hai 
if both of you are right for each other Allah will make it happen, if either one of you is wrong for the other then Allah will not make it happen.
never ever get hurt when Allah takes something off of your hands…be sure that he is leaving you empty handed to place something better in your hands… rishta process be they arranged or love are emotionally taxing… I know it …but just have faith in Allah that you will get whoever is meant for you no matter what.
If this guy is meant for you you’ll have him… if not then sooner or later the guy you’re supposed to be with will cross your path
it is natural to feel disappointed whenever something happens that we do not expect or plan… but we need to remember that ultimately Allah controls our destiny aur jis cheez ko hum sochte hain humaare saath bura huwa its not necessary that it was truly a bad experience …we’re short sighted so we see it that way but every experience is meant to teach us a lesson, or make us strong, or is meant to be a turning point in the path of our life towards something better. You just need to have faith in Allah and thank him in all situations… if u get a baat pakki in this situation offer your thanks to Allah and even if you don’t offer it anyways because you should be thankful k rishta nahin huwa because he may not have been the right person for you and Allah knows best who is for you and who isnt