Guys like girls who have jobs and go out to work?

Lifestyle Relationships
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  1. Yes, I would prefer a woman with a full-time job
  2. No, I would prefer to be the sole earner and provider for the family
  3. Yes, but only part time work that does not interfere with household activities
  4. Yes, but only until children are born. After that, a woman should be at home
  5. Yes, but only until children are born. After that, a woman should do at most part-time work.

Thanks!

Posting poll on behalf of mAd_ScIeNtIsT

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i voted :dhimpak:

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main ne bhi vote dal dia..
ab navaz shareef avay hi avay:smokin: :jhanda:

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one more category

what about yes, full time but after children she should have the option/ability to work part time/take time off while they are young...2-3 year old then back to full-time.

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I voted # 3 option though i’m all for my wife to have full time job.

:smokin2:

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What about the option "I will let her decide what she wants to do after marriage and after having kids and after kids start school" ?

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juldi juldi....results please.....

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hear hear! :k:

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Faisal: *
What about the option "I will let her decide what she wants to do after marriage and after having kids and after kids start school" ?
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Good observation. It's a sad state of affairs that a poll generated by a woman did NOT think of this as a viable option. Says a lot, no?. Our women are equally to blame for the state they find themselves in.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by funguy: *

Good observation. It's a sad state of affairs that a poll generated by a woman did NOT think of this as a viable option. Says a lot, no?. Our women are equally to blame for the state they find themselves in.
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did you look at the initial post? it says:

Posting poll on behalf of mAd_ScIeNtIsT

hmm...

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CorruptAngel

You tell him girl! :D

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by CurruptAngel: *

did you look at the initial post? it says:

Posting poll on behalf of mAd_ScIeNtIsT

hmm...
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Dear, it says posting poll on behalf of MS. So it means MS requested a poll and she posted it. How can you be sure she did not come up with the questions?.

But lemme retract. I read the questions again. The grammar and sentence structure does lean towards Mad Scientist coming up with the questions. So, I take my original argument back.

Sorry irem.

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What can I say?

The concept of a desi guy actually asking a desi girl what to do rather than telling her is foreign to me :snooty:

:feeling-chauvinistic-wala-icon:

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Huh? Its her life we are talking about…right? :slight_smile:

You must be going out with some very docile and non-decisive girls to have come up with this approach. :hehe:

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its up to her.

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:smash:
wat’re u feeling now? :slight_smile:

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Feeling Chauvinist? HA! You are a true born feminist.

I personally believe she can work till they are kids. After that those are her full time responsibility, till they can take care of themselves. Say 12 to 14. Then she can work part time or full time, depending on her wishes. Or she can stay at home.

Honestly the way it is ingrained into the females in society, i doubt any of these girls would actually consider working once they have kids. Saying stuff and then seeing reality are two different things.

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I think there should be another option like

Yes, if there is the 'need' to (like financial difficulties)

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Faisal: *
What about the option "I will let her decide what she wants to do after marriage and after having kids and after kids start school" ?
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Didn't vote because above option wasn't there.

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The option to discuss everything fully with the partner is missing. But if I were asked, I think working part time and looking after kids would be my dream :blush: