HEY HEY HEY!!! Are you back from Pakistan???
Where is the confusion? lol. Im saying that what he did was wrong. He was well aware, that is why he got defensive. That is a common trait among men, ESPECIALLY desi men. They have control issues, so if they are wrong, instead of apologizing, they get defensive and want to be left alone.
If your wrong, your wrong. Your not up to Allah’s level you are capable of making mistakes, and when a mistake is made you should apologize.
Sometimes we unawarely hurt others, when this happens dont try to present an explanation as this will be perceived as an excuse. Apologize, and show your spouse that you are hurt, when they are hurt.
Men are not capable of this.
For that reason I am considering lesbianism.