From what I’ve seen guys who are responsible enough to support their family and siblings usually are either capable of buying toys and stuff for themselves OR they decide to go without for as long as they can…they dont’ ask for handouts.
this guy has no pride apparently if he is asking for money for unnecessary things- i think most men would never ask for anything as a gift (whether a physical gift or money) .. so the fact he asked for money is very shady
she should dump him- love or not- this is not going to go well
if you feel like sharing- let us know how this all turns out