Guppies, I want to understand the male's perspective on this!

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Re: Guppies, I want to understand the male’s perspective on this!

@stoppit

Okay, so what is the husband doing instead? I don’t believe for a second that he’s not sharing his life with others around him - talking to people, hanging out with people. If you can do that with other people, you can spend a little time to do that with your spouse everyday. Don’t tell me he’s not going out and enjoying himself with other people.

And she clearly said she lets him have his space. How is not contacting him for a few days = talking every few minutes?

All his behaviour is showing disinterest.

Exactly! If someone wants to do something it’s very easy to do so. In fact, most (if not all) people do things that they want! I’m sure the dude isn’t that clueless that his wife gets upset sometimes due to the lack of communication. He knows he can **easily **solve this. But he has chosen not to.