Guppies, I want to understand the male's perspective on this!

[partyslims]

Re: Guppies, I want to understand the male’s perspective on this!

@stoppit

she wants to know what he’s thinking and why he is behaving this way. you guys are avoiding answering this because you know that a person who cares will make the time and effort.

like pslims post is just tryna make her feel better coz she said she wanted positive responses. yeh, guys are no doubt clueless but talking to your other half is pretty basic a desire most people in a relationship have.

now see if anyone can see what i’m trying to say between the lines.

That I’m awesome and stuff. Thanks :-p

j/k j/k

The cold hard truth is that if you are mature enough to be in a relationship and getting married, there really are no excuses not to be in touch on a regular basis. Unfortunately this type of behavior does not bode well for the future, but yeah, I was trying to keep things positive at the OP’s request. If I’m in a relationship, I communicate my thoughts/feelings very clearly and do my best to make my s/o feel secure as well. Communication is key in a relationship and if it’s starting out this way, you better find out what you are in for in the future as well.