Guilt trip

[neha]

Re: Guilt trip

@razzmatazz

So you have a past. Had legit bf’s here and there (only 1 at a time) and were sexual with them, but did not have sex. So, no bad reputation stuff or any drama.

You know you are a changed person and that past is exactly that, the PAST. And its not a past that will come to haunt you. Your lifestyle now is completely clean. Other than this, you have a clean record.

You have matured and now are in a serious relationship, but you know that to this guy having a past really matters. So you lie, and dont tell him about your past bc you dont want to ruin this and bc you are not that person anymore, so you simply think it is not worth mentioning.

Deep down you feel guilty for lying. But on the other hand you know for a fact that telling him the truth will only ruin everything between the two of you and open a whole new can of worms.

So, ladies, would you spill your beans and tell him anyway, and let him take whatever action he wants and loose him and everything that otherwise could have been perfect? Or do you keep your past to yourself, and think of it as a new beginning?

no i wont tell anything to him..itz like apnay paoon per aap kulhara maarna when u know in ur heart that u wont do anything like that again and u r guilty over that..plus Allah wants us “k hum doosron ki aibon per perdah dalain,na k sab ko btatay phirain”..when Allah wants us to do this for OTHERS then y can’t we forgive ourselves for own own mistakes when v know it is very much a chance that it will destroy our present..so therez nothing wrong in it that we hide our past mistakes…