Most of us have been here for a long time now. Since then We have come to know eachother very well, we log in to GS daily and if we miss a single day, seems we have missed an important thing!! GS is now like our Virtual Family.. some of us have become very good friends, some of us have met eachother, some of us are still strangers to eachother, some of us fight, some of us dont agree to the other member and sometimes all of us Laugh together!! Besides that, sometimes we say eachother some harsh words or sometimes become unnecessarily rude!!
I have created this thread to evaluate ourself!! To feel, where we failed to prove what we are actually and went mad unnecessarily… to accept the things we shouldnt have done, to confess we were being rude/ harsh to one of our GS member..
and its time to confess if you were rude/ wrong/ painful/ harsh to another member here and realised later… but never had the courage to accept it… its time to bring out your Good human from you!!
Did you go through that?? Any thing you did to another member here and realised later any of these:
I did Wrong!!
I could have explained my opinion being more mature!!
I made him/her hurt!!
I lied!!
I should not have spoken to him/her that way!!
I was right but my tone wasn’t!!
I was being unnecessarily rude!!
I misunderstood him/her!!
Man!! Y did I say that to him/her?? !!
If you do!! Bring the name of that member, accept your mistake and feel light!
Every member comes here with their habits and nature.. no one would want to change him/her for you… lets understand eachother and make GS a happy forum, where we dont want to impose our ideas/ concepts/ suggestions/ theories/ opinions on eachother but just to put our views peacefully and have healthy discussions… !!
My heart pains seeing people putting there cursor on report button everyday!!
Ok, the only thing that still makes me feel bad, That GS Singing Competition Issue. 25$ was nothing to me, but I was just mad at if you have committed something and you are failing to do that on time, then atleast inform me.. I should have spoken to muzna in private but I opened a thread on forum and that was my mistake… SORRY MUZNA
People later on thought that I was dieing for 25$ .. but it wasn’t true and thats when I realised my mistake that my thread made people think that way.. I was just mad at being uninformed and I could discuss the issue with muzna in PMs. My intension was pure but my attempt was wrong
Sorry Muzna again, I still feel for that and I dont like it!!
People take GS too seriously, and I am even guilty of that at times. I have met a few Guppies and I talk to 2-3 off GS everyday but for the most part I don’t know who people are behind the screen and pissing people off has never been my intention (ok sometimes it is ).
At the end of it, it is only internet. In real life we all have different views and we all shrug any differences of opinion off, so why not do that online? Even people who I don’t get along well on GS I would gladly shake their hand if I ever met them.
I agree with what shak has said. Ive made an awful lot of friends here and I dont think I have any negative feelings towards anyone. I agree I might have hurt someone on here but at the end of the day ppl should know tis is just an online forum. Differences of POV should stay here and be accepted. In real life if I were to ever come across a Guppy/guppan, I would love to say hi to them. Most of them I dont hold grudges and I dont intend to hurt anyone. So if anybody got hurt by my posts am sorry (I think so )
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