Nina85
March 1, 2010, 3:24am
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Okay, some reasons why desi men might go for a gori:
They simply fell in love and this gori girl happened to actually be a nice person.
The guy didnt click with any desi girls he met so therefore dismissed them as all being too “desi” or whatever. And then started dating gori girls.
Gori girl will not question a long term relationship for a long time and wont demand or expect marriage to come out of it …whereas a desi girl will feel the need to legalize her relationship as soon as possible. So, in this case goris may be more easy going.
Some reasons I see these unions not working out:
Eventually, goris get tired of living a double life: their life and the guy’s desi life. For some, its just not meant to be.
Most are expected to convert and some years later…after the romance has died down they feel the need to return to their old selves again.
Too much of a clash on how to raise children. Children eventually becoming a lost cause.
Not necessarily..It depends at what age. Most gori women after he age of 25 would not agree with this. They invest in relationships in which they see a future, hopefully a wedding. Again, I said most, not all.