Why do Pakistani men treat goris (I use that term loosely, to include any non-desan, esp white girls and latinas) way better than desans?
The way they talk to them is so much nicer. They come across as nicer people. Their mothers all of a sudden will not give the gori a problem and if she does, the boy is quick to protect his gori wife. He will treat her well. One recent thread talks about a sikh family where the guy is leeching off his wife’s parents and the wife doesn’t know what to do about it. Ok, that would not happen if she was white.
Same guy - put a desi woman in front of him, and his true colors come out. Put a gori in front of him, and suddenly he is prince charming.
Why don’t desi guys even TRY to put an EFFORT into us???
Because they know Goris will stick up for their rights instead of like Desi women (E.g. in Pakistan) who have to put up with constant cr*p instead of sticking up for themselves.
Your observation isn't entirely incorrect PCG. I guess the way our guys treat gori ladies comes from our background of being ruled by the white skin folks. It's a self esteem issue.
But things have changed. Our men are recognizing the strengths of their type as well.
I don't think it is true that desi men treat goris better than desans.
But it maybe that desans 'expect' special treatment and by default they feel more neglected.
What if goris treated desi men better than desans? Many desans brought up abroad do have an attitude problem, (aside from them being shy, inhibited for cultursl reasons etc. which is OK) belittling them for being from desi country and think just because they were brought up abroad, have citizenship, they are superior than desi man who is otherwise educated, nice, humble and has an acceptable job but not an MD or MBA or highly paid Engineer.
I don't think it is true that desi men treat goris better than desans.
But it maybe that desans 'expect' special treatment and by default they feel more neglected.
What if goris treated desi men better than desans? Many desans brought up abroad do have an attitude problem, (aside from them being shy, inhibited for cultursl reasons etc. which is OK) belittling them for being from desi country and think just because they were brought up abroad, have citizenship, they are superior than desi man who is otherwise educated, nice, humble and has an acceptable job but not an MD or MBA or highly paid Engineer.
because goris r better looking than u desans
Maybe thats why they have the attitude problem?
Everything a desi girl does is under a microscope. If she talks to boys shes besharam, doesnt talk to boys shes a prude, wears jeans shes besharam, wears shalwar kameez shes backwards. goes to work shes maaadraaaarn, stays home shes a freeloader.
GOD FORbiD she does something out of the ordinary. Oh and lets not forget, she recognizes her full worth and stands up for herself, doesnt take crap from people---she has an attitude problem.
I'd get into more detail but others can make my point in a much better way (yup, im lazy).
Everything a desi girl does is under a microscope. If she talks to boys shes besharam, doesnt talk to boys shes a prude, wears jeans shes besharam, wears shalwar kameez shes a prude. goes to work shes besharam, stays home shes a freeloader.
GOD FORbiD she does something out of the ordinary. God forbid, she recognizes her full worth and stands up for herself, doesnt take crap from people---she has an attitude problem.
Ah, im too lazy to get into this.
Sara it is true she may be under microscope.
The interaction with desis is what I mentioned about. And many times it is not her fault but the parents expectations.
She is citizen, she is better at English, she knows her way around...so parents wish a Doctor or highly qualified, highly paid professional should be the one who she should marry.
It is a dilemma of these girls.
On the other hand, decent educated professionals attract goris especially due to other reasons I am not going to go in to at this time and hence desi men feel a bit more respected and accepted by them. Eventually they get married to them. Again the end result I am not going in to at this time.
Some idea of desans can be sensed from thread "Muslim Speed Dating".
Its because Goris aren't high maintenance. Its because they don't have mental handicaps and issues. They don't ***** and nag as much about men in general. Have you noticed how many hate threads are against desi men?
More importantly have you noticed how that wanker Monk gets a chick and you all burn up like a swede in the Sahara Desert? *****ing at him and making snide comments. That's why.
But really mainly its because they enjoy sex and are free about it :D
Its because Goris aren't high maintenance. .............
I wouldn't go that far, wait till one gets married. A desan would still wake up and may not disturb your sleep for a crying baby. A feminist or gori may say: Its your turn to get up dude! Don't care if you have to go to work tomorrow.
Thousand apologies to mamaof3. :)
But really mainly its because they enjoy sex and are free about it :D
Wait till one gets marrried, this quality may bother a desi man.
Ok honestly there could be one or more of the following reason:-
1. liking for the other race. Liking for other as "ghar ke murzee dal baraber"
2. Liking for gori Chiti chamree(skin)
3. Down to earth person (no attitude)
4.No baggage ( cultural or religious)-is prepared to leave every thing for him including religion or family if asked
5. Highly intellectual person that one can have conversation with
and many more
I am really not worried about how desi or walaitee men treats desi or no desi women. I am only concerned about how my "would be" will treat me. Thats something everyone should worry about.
I am really not worried about how desi or walaitee men treats desi or no desi women. I am only concerned about how my "would be" will treat me. Thats something everyone should worry about.
