People from overseas who look for DIL from Pakistan should make sure the girl is the kind who would ajust to their lifestyle. Someone who spent her whole life in pakistan doesn’t realize how life is in US. So why do these aunties look for rich girls and not the middleclass hardworking ones? Perhaps because the rich ones look better, and are well maintained?
When did I say thats what someone should do? I just gave you the reason why they are like that. And who are you to really say what someone should do? If someone wants a DIL whos going to do all the chores, then find someome with those qualities, dont expect a girl to completely change for you.
Again you’re putting words in my mouth. When did I say I have to rely on anyone? I can do everythign myself, thats what I mentioned before. I don’t mind cooking or cleaning , I just mentioned I want independence from inlaws and can’t survive in a joint family.