Did I say that? I never said what someone should or shouldn’t do. I just gave the reason why some girls seem to have so much nakhra.
Many girls are spoiled and they have never even gotten a glass of water for themselves. They don’t know how to cook, how to clean, how to do laundry, how to iron clothes. They were never taught these things, their maids did all of this for them.
Whoever is expecting the princess to work like a slave should have thought about it. Everyone loves moving to US, they don’t realize how tough life can be over there. If the husband or inlaws expect their DIL to take care of all the chores, they should look for a DIL who has those qualities. I have seen aunties coming from US looking for beautiful educated rich highclass girls here , obviously those chicks will have nakhras. If they want such a homemaker, why not look at middleclass girls who don’t mind doing all the housework?