A girl who was raised in a rich pakistani family, who has never worked in her life will obviously find it hard to adjust in a middle class american family where she would have to do all these chores. Don’t blame the girl here, blame whoever thought this rishta could work out!
I am from pakistan and my fiance is from US, I don’t mind doing chores and taking care of the house ,however, I want independence from inlaws and theres no way I am ever going to live in joint family. Thats one of the things I can’t compromise on and it has nothing to do with “nakhra”, its basic freedom.
As far as struggle and hardwork is concerned, if you’re getting a spoilt brat who never had to worry about such stuff, is it really her fault?
Girls who are from rich families here do have very high standards and don’t like the idea of slaving in the kitchen or cleaning when their maids do that for them here. Problem is that when these US guys look for rishtas in Pakistan, they look for those hot modern well dressed,well spoken, well educated defence girls, not the average hardworking middle class girl from nazaimabad or some small town.