you got my thread wrong! and are confusing me with someone else :).. i was promoting wise spending habits..on how to avoid additional suffering that revolves AROUND the wedding day..by NO means i was playing down the wedding day itself.. along with the usual anti jehaz crap that most pakistanis cant dodge themselves out of... anyway..thats old news.. just because i am presenting the other side of the coin which is VERY relevant to the issue...doesnt mean you can disregard the ugly truth that comes with the lifestyle being glorified.
Well I'm glad that you are nothing like Pakistanis. :)