Hubby go out sometimes with his friends to play cricket or spend some time.I hang out with my friends in afternoons llike having a girls day out. In evenings its usually family time but the thing I don't like is that some times our friends don't leave children with us or we cannot leave children at their homes because if they are not doing that how can we?On the other hand all gorey neighbors leave their children at some friend's house and have fun.But in our cultural I feel its a sin if you leave your children at someone's house because they think you just think about yourself not your children.We have fun with children we do everything for them but if once in a while we couple have fun then desi parents don't feel comfortable .
UZ- find a baby sitter, really.
with leaving kids at someone's house, the age of kids is a huge factor.
as they get a little older it s easier from what I have seen.
but find some good babysitters, even if you use them once every coupleof weeks, its worth it.