Re: Good Husbands...
thats why sometimes when ppl talk about successful marriages and this whole talk of sacrifice comes up, well some is reasonable and understandable, but if it is onesided and it is just changing who the person is, if that is what ittakes to keep the marriage afloat then is it a successful marriage? where one person ceases to be who they were because of the pressure from the other one?
If the pressure corrects an action that goes against the values and beliefs of our religious requirements, then both husband and wife have the right to correct each other because on the day of judgement, we will all be held responsible. Saying "that's how I am" is a lame excuse for covering that one is on the wrong path. For example, if wife doesn't offer prayers and husband reminds her from time to time, she must not take it as pressure, but a reminder.